Renaissance Mom: Kirsten Kapur
I am so happy to bring you an interview with the wonderful Kirsten Kapur, knitwear designer. Mother to three teenagers (one starting college this fall! and twin girls), we were fortunate to have Kirsten be one of our very first designers in the inaugural issue of Petite Purls.
Hi Kirsten, thanks for joining us. How about you start by telling us how you got into crafting?
Crafting was always a part of my family life when I was growing up. My mother sewed most of our clothes, knit, quilted, did needle point & embroidery – she never sat down without a project. The materials were always available to me and she let me freely explore and play with them. When I was a teenager and became interested in clothes & fashion I figured out that if I made my own clothes my mom would buy all the fabric and patterns I wanted. She’d never have spent that same money on ready made clothes. During college I worked in a store that sold ready to wear and fabric. At that point I started making most of my clothes. Through my college years and well into my twenties I continued to sew my own clothing, usually making my own patterns.
How did you get into designing? You mainly self-publish your patterns. How did that come about and why did you choose that avenue?
Before my kids were born I worked as an apparel designer and later as a textile designer in NYC. I’d sewn for years and in the garment industry I further developed my knowledge of pattern making and garment construction. Years later I discovered the online knitting community. I was doing a lot of knitting at the time and I loved the idea of connecting with others who shared my interest. I started a blog and started to write about and photograph my projects. With my background in apparel design and garment construction designing knitting patterns seemed the natural way to go. I like the idea of self-publishing because it allows me to have direct contact with the people who knit my patterns. I also enjoy the immediacy of the process. I don’t need to work seasons ahead the way I did in the apparel industry. I have an idea I can make it, write up the pattern and publish it pretty quickly. I’ve also done work for online publications like Petite Purls and Knitty as well as books and print magazines. I enjoy having a balance of both self publishing and designing for others.
Are you a work-at-home mom or do you have a work space out of the home? If you are a work-at-home mom, how do you juggle your work with your mom duties?
I work from home. It’s not always easy but my kids are all teenagers, so I get them to help out with cooking, laundry, and other household tasks. Before my son broke his leg at the beginning of July he and his sister did most of the grocery shopping.
About a year ago I finally admitted to myself – and my family, “Ok, this is my job now. I am a knitting designer”. That was a turning point for me. I started to put less pressure on myself about having a perfectly clean house (I was never that successful at that anyway) and allowed myself to put more of my energy into design. In two years I’ll have three kids in college, so it was either go out and get a full time job, or put more time into designing and see if I could make my own business grow. It was an easy decision since I’m working at something I love and I get to be at home with my kids, who’s company I really enjoy.
Two of my kids are musicians. I’ve been taking them into NYC several times a week for music rehearsals, lessons and shows for 5 or 6 years. Since knitting is so portable I’m able to bring my job with me pretty much anywhere I go – a good thing since we’re on the go so much.
What inspires your creativity?
I can’t say there’s any one thing that inspires my creativity. Sometimes it’s just a skein of yarn that leads me to a design idea. Other times I see someone walking down the street with a certain sense of style and suddenly I’m brimming with ideas. Several times my kids have requested that I make them something pretty specific – a few designs have been born out of those requests. My Staccato Hoodie pattern was one of those. I love color and working with combining colors so there are times that I’ll take a few skeins of yarn that I like together and knit swatches until I find something that works. The Ulmus shawl came about that way. I ripped that one out several times before I got what I wanted. I have more ideas than hours in a day to knit them.
Your kids are older now, but at one point you had three toddlers at home, your son and twin girls! What do you think has been your biggest struggle as a working mom?
I didn’t have a job when my kids were young. My career up to that point had been working in the garment industry and the hours were so insane it just wasn’t practical to try to raise kids and continue at that pace. I did a bit of freelance work here and there painting needlepoint canvases, furniture and pretty much anything else that came my way. I’d put up a safety gate and work in the adjoining room where I could still supervise my kids but keep them out of my paints and supplies. I can remember times that one of the kids would be crying and I’d have a deadline to meet. Those were definitely the toughest days. The freelance work was far from full time though, so I think I had it easier than most.
What are your goals for yourself or your business for your future?
Right now most of my designs are sort of independent of one another. I get an inspiration, make the item, write up the pattern and then move on to the next idea. At some point I’d like to put together a cohesive line and release it all at one time. That’s more the way I used to work in the garment industry and its a very satisfying way to work. A number of designers have been self publishing books of pattern collections and I’d like to do that eventually. Mostly it’s a matter of finding the time to pull a collection together.
What other hobbies do you like to dabble in? What is your favorite way to relax?
My husband and I play golf together when we get the chance. I’m a pretty mediocre golfer, but I enjoy it and the one on one time it allows us. I love to garden but don’t get much time for that these days. Hopefully once my kids are all in college I’ll have more free time and get back to it. Several years ago I learned to spin and bought a wheel. I really love spinning. From time to time I give myself a few days off from knitting and go on a spinning binge.
Do you have any advice to give other women that are interested in starting their own small business?
For me the biggest hurdle I had to overcome was admitting to myself that Through the Loops was actually a business. I love the work I do so most of the time it doesn’t feel like a job. But it is, and in order to have a business that is going to grow it has to be a priority.
What is your favorite game to play with your kids?
My kids are older so we don’t often have time to play games together anymore, but Apples to Apples was a favorite when they were younger. These days there’s always creativity happening in my house, whether it’s music, or an art, knitting or sewing project. We’re usually all in one room each working on our own thing, talking about them and sharing them.
We also spend a lot of time together with Anders and Sofie’s band. Other families have their soccer & baseball games, we have our music gigs.
If there is anything else you’d like to add…
I would just like to thank all of the people who have stepped up to test knit for me, or taken the time to write when they’ve enjoyed making one of my patterns, shared their own talents as designers and yarn dyers or inspired me with gorgeous photographs. This is a very generous community and it is a rare day that I am not reminded of this fact.



















